Parenting with Anxiety in a Stressful World
- Dr Elijah Silver

- Mar 24
- 3 min read
Updated: May 6
Some days you’re doing fine. Some days it’s that one meltdown - yours or your child’s - that tips the whole day off balance.

It’s not that you don’t love your kid. But sometimes holding it all - their moods, their needs, your work, your household, your own swirling thoughts - can be a lot. And if you live with anxiety, it doesn’t take much to knock things off kilter. A rushed morning, a hard conversation, a random news headline, and suddenly your nervous system is flooded. You feel like you’re failing even though you're doing everything you can. This is especially true if you are a neurodivergent parent or living with OCD - the stress of the world can easily push your already sensitive brain into overwhelm.
This is the reality of parenting in today’s world. It’s not just you. The environment is overstimulating. The stakes feel impossibly high. You’re trying to protect your kid from everything - harmful chemicals, scary internet rabbit holes, overexposure to media and social pressure - while also teaching them how to be confident, kind, resilient humans. No wonder you’re exhausted. No wonder your chest gets tight and your sleep is interrupted. You’re not broken. You’re responding to a world that’s genuinely overwhelming.
But you don’t have to carry it alone. This is where holistic care makes a difference - not just for your child, but for you, too. I work with a lot of families where one or both parents are dealing with chronic anxiety, burnout, or overstimulation at the same time their child is struggling with emotional regulation, behavioral challenges, or stress-related physical symptoms. It’s all connected. You’re a family. You’re in it together. When one person is dysregulated, everyone feels it. And when one person starts to heal, the whole system begins to shift.
Whole Family Healing

Naturopathic care gives us a different way in. Instead of treating symptoms in isolation, we look at the whole picture. I spend time listening to your story - really listening. What’s working, what’s not. What your days feel like. What your child is like when they’re at their best—and what happens when they’re not. We talk about routines, sleep, nutrition, screen use, emotional support, sensory needs, and the unique way your nervous system functions. Together, we craft a plan that helps everyone in the house feel more resourced, grounded, and supported.
Sometimes that plan includes herbs or homeopathy. Sometimes we work on blood sugar regulation, sleep routines, or creating more supportive rhythms at home. Sometimes it’s about helping your child feel safer in their body so they don’t need to fight or flee every five minutes - and helping you feel safer too. There is no one-size-fits-all fix. But with care, consistency, and someone in your corner, it gets easier.
When I work with families, I often see both parents and kids. That’s not because I think everyone needs to be in treatment. It’s because family health is relational. It’s not just about what’s happening inside your body or your child’s - it’s about the spaces between you. How you show up for each other. How you recover from hard days. How you find your way back to connection when things go sideways.
When you’re more grounded, your child feels it. When your child is more regulated, you get more space to breathe. And when you’re both supported, you stop surviving the day and start living in it - with more presence, more ease, and more capacity to enjoy each other.



